They've always had issues in Nigeria, they had issues again, they got into a fight, the wife charged him for assault. Wife was a student as at then, so, her husband was a dependant, after the fight, she declared asylum, claiming she doesn't feel safe around the man being in Canada.
The man is sent back to Nigeria.
Wife is still in Canada with her children.
One of the things I say to couples that quarrels alot in Nigeria and then continues in Canada is that, they will not survive the test of the culture shock abroad.
I know how many families I personally know even after 10, 15,20 years of different pastors always trying to help, they always ended up in divorce.
If your wife/husband had caught you cheating, or you both often swear and curse eachother, or you don't even relate as couples, some They've not had sex in years and they live together, please know that, it is not a healthy place to be.
Alot of times, the women are the ones putting the pressure of relocation so as to escape the stigma of divorce because they want to leave the marriage.
A woman doesn't forgive cheating, just as men don't forgive cheating.
She will continue to live her life in isolation of you in her mind.
She will never deny you sex even though she's out of the marriage.
I don't know who is reading this.......
But if you're currently in such situations abroad or the other partner is still in Nigeria, just zero your mind from the marriage and choose peace.
Many people are very vindictive, so protect yourself by sourcing for a way out to get your papers.
Please any form of domestic violence is enough to leave the marriage.
Everybody will find who will love them for them and do it right,
even Satan has disciples......
So, marriage isnt a do or die.
Many people don't really understand why they're married in the first place....
So, it makes it seem like, marriage is draining them.
It doesn't have to always look bad in the end. Just leave to live!
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